Friends

To my dear friends,

Many a times I wonder...whether the group of some special people called as 'friends' exist or not.

We have taken a birth alone, we are going to die alone...we do make some special relations in between. Are these relations exist for perpetuity? or it's only just a matter of time to have some new relations?

Don't know how to define this particular entity...called as friends...

The people who think that they have some good friends, sometimes wonder if they are in illusion about the same.

It's same as the life process...very strange...nobody ever understood it. People just follow the path coming in their way. 

Same is the case with group of people known as friends...people meet each other...have a bonding for some particular time and then move on...forget about the relationships and memories...leaving atleast one person in illusion...who was and still is in dire straits of finding a friend...who had thought that he has found a person to whom he can call as his real friend.

Upto this time..that perosn has read that...friendship remains forever...friends are there for lifetime...but it's all chaos in his head now...he thinks all this book stuff is good for nothing.

He thinks again..feels bad...looks back at those memories...remembers people to whom he was calling as his best buddies...with whom he can share his thoughts, his time, he can be a part of their life....he wonders where everything has vanished...it seems he was the only one who was in search of friends...nobody else cared for his existence...

Now he wonders again...do something known as friends exist in this world or not...or everything is just a time based...some mad people still believe that friendship is for perpetuity...is it so??

Questions...only questions...!!!

What is the purpose of our life?

Right from the childhood, I have been stuck to this question….what is the purpose of our life? Life’s journey is only related to beginning i.e. birth…and end i.e. death or is it something else, which nobody yet has come to know. Do our existing life related to our past lives? But again the question is how much truth is there in the re-incarnation? And who is going to answer all these questions?

Does everyone come to know about his life’s purpose before dying? And if not then why does everyone take a birth, what is the need of that? Who decides who borns on which day, in which family, at which location?

And what happens after the death? Does life’s journey end over there? Or is it the beginning of the new journey? If our journey ends over there itself? Then do we become spirits? Do spirits really exist? And if they do, why can’t we observe their presence? In which quantity do they exist? How much quantity can our surrounding accommodate them?

And if we do not become spirits, then what happens to us after the death? Is it incarnation again? And up to how much limit? Who decides who become spirit and who takes another birth? Is it depending upon the good and the bad things done by us during our life on earth? If that is the reason then there will be spirits of only bad people in the surroundings or vice-versa.

And if spirits exist due to their unfulfilled wishes during their lives, then how one should know his own wish that needs to be fulfilled so that he does not become a spirit after death? Or is it better to be a spirit than to born and die again and going through the life’s journey and pain during the death?

Who has the answers to all these questions…all the people which we see in the surroundings…does any one of those has answers to these questions?

If not then do they also have similar questions like these? If yes, then why don’t everybody search for the answers?

And if they do not have any kind of these questions then what is the need  of their living…without knowing the purpose of their lives???